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T O P I C R E V I E WLILYGIRLThis is fascinating. Has anyone read about this? It piqued my interest because I have a male friend whose Sun is Pisces and Moon in Libra. He appears shy but has shades of a wild man on the inside. He, also, has a number of planets in Aquarius which in his mix--- seems to confer some degree of sexy soul saving detachment. LOL.Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment by Dr. Brian G. GilmartinUniversity Press of America, Inc.1987Excerpt:1. Love-shy men have a surfeit of planets located in the 4th, 5th, and 6th houses. This is interesting because in astrology thissignals low self-sufficiency combined with high introversion/inhibition.2. The chronically love-shy are significantly more likely than self-confident men to have their natal Saturn in the 5th or 7th houses. This is interesting because in astrology Saturn is the planet of restrictions. It is often referred to as the “negative teacher”. The 7th house is the house of marriage and partnerships; the 5th house is the house of sex and of children. 3. Chronically love-shy men have an overrepresentation of Mars in Cancer and in Pisces. In astrology Mars is the planet of energy and drive. Cancer and Pisces are regarded as the two worst signs for Mars because they are associated with inertia and with energy wastage.4. Love shy men tend to have significantly more fixed signs and earth signs in their horoscopes than do self-confident, non-shymen. In astrology such combinations would be associated with inhibition and with stubborn and often intractable problems such as love-shyness.5. Love-shy men are quite likely to have a natal Saturn that is square or conjunct to the natal sun or natal moon. Many loveshyshave Saturn in the same sign as either their sun, moon, or ascendant. 6. Severely love-shy men are significantly more likely than nonshys to have their natal Mars in one of the following four houses:7th, 6th, 4th, and 3rd, in that order. Severe love-shyness seems to be associated with the natal Mars being opposite either thenative’s ascendant or the native’s midheaven--give or take an orb of ten degrees. 7. Severely love-shy men show some tendency for their natal Neptunes to be at or near their midheavens. Neptune is the planet offantasy, daydreams and illusion. Those with Neptune at or near the midheaven are believed by astrologers to be dominated(ruled) by fantasy and illusion.8. Severely love-shy men show some preponderance of planets, sun, moon, ascendant, and midheaven, in signs ruled by Venus: i.e., Taurus and Libra. Many love-shy men have at least two of the three major astrological elements (sun, ascendant, and moon)in the Venus-ruled Taurus and Libra. 9. Down through the centuries it has been noticed that the severely love-shy (men in particular) are substantially more likely than the non-afflicted to have been born during the May 16 to 19 period than during any other four-day period of the calendar year. The star called Caput Algol rules this four-day period. Traditionally this star had been called “The Evil One”. And the evidencecollected from scores of astrologers (including contemporary ones) indicates that this star does appear to have a detrimentalimpact upon a person’s powers of endurance. Men, in particular, who had been born during this four-day period are highly likelyto be excessively passive. Further, the Caput Algol personality is commonly perceived as being “pleasant but non-competitive” and sort of unambitious.10. Astrologers determine a person’s sign for twelve different items: the sun, the moon, the rising sign, the midheaven, the two inner planets, and the six outer planets. Each of these twelve items had been in some astrological sign at the moment of a person’s birth. The severely love-shy are much more likely than the non-afflicted to have been born with nine or more of these twelve items in “negative” or “feminine” signs: i.e., Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces. 11. Those born with Jupiter and Saturn conjunct (give or take an orb of ten degrees) have an above average vulnerability towards becoming severely love-shy. This is especially true if the conjunction occurs in the 5th or 7th houses.Website address is: http://www.love-shy.com/Gilmartin/Chapter04/research.html 26taurusInteresting. I fit just about all of the criteria here. Except being a man. lol!Tranquil PoetInteresting ------------------Gemini sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon--------------------------------------------------*I would fly to the moon and back...If you'll be my baby.writesomethingthis is cute and informative. I seem to attract men with saturn in the 5th, 7th, leo, or libra.Mama MiaLG, where are you these days girly, was thinking about you and Doc..Was wondering how things were going with your health and your friendship with him..Hope you chime on soon so we can catch up.. AcousticGodI think I've come across as love shy at times. I do have four planets in the 4th - 6th houses. My Saturn is in my 1st, and in my Ascendant's sign. My Mars in Scorpio is in the 6th opposite my ascendant. I don't have any Taurus, but I have two planets ruled by Libra, and three planets in Libra's house (7th). Ask by The SmithsShyness is nice andShyness can stop youFrom doing all the things in lifeYou'd like toShyness is nice andShyness can stop youFrom doing all the things in lifeYou'd like toSo, if there's something you'd like to tryIf there's something you'd like to tryAsk me I wont say no, how could I?Coyness is nice, andCoyness can stop youFrom saying all the things inLife you'd like toSo, if there's something you'd like to tryIf there's something you'd like to tryAsk me I wont say no, how could I?Spending warm Summer days indoorsWriting frightening verseTo a BUCKTOOTHED girl in LuxembourgAsk me, ask me, ask meAsk me, ask me, ask meBecause if it's not LoveThen it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb,the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bombThat will bring us togetherNature is a language - can't you read ?Nature is a language - can't you read ?So, ask me, ask me, ask me,Ask me, ask me, ask meBecause if it's not LoveThen it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb,the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bombThat will bring us togetherIf it's not LoveThen it's the bombThen it's the bombThat will bring us togetherSo, ask me, ask me, ask me,Ask me, ask me, ask meOh, la...Scorpionic WebI'm certainly not "love shy", and I have many of these supposed "love shy" placements. I am introverted, however. I hate people, as a principle, but I love intimate relationships and I'm always ready for the girl with whom I share a mutual attraction to give me a chance at love.In response to the article:1. I have 6 planets in the 4th and 5th houses.4. I have 5 planets in fixed or earth signs, plus fixed Asc5. I have natal Saturn conjunct natal Moon.sd09shynes is a cursewritesomethingbumpcheshirekatInteresting, describes my funny close Capricorn friend and my other sweet and nuturing big guy but gentle Pisces friend.^.^LaraInteresting.. the qua/sun libra/moon guy i had dinner with seems to be quite shy with a wild streak!Daysleeper1 to 4 fits me... 11 half (7 or 8 out of 12 in the signs mentionned)It's not that I'm love shy... but I rarely take first initiative... I need to be wanted, I don't want... I need to be in control... If that happens, I can be very loving... Leona1946Although the 5th house is in the lower half of the chart, it is about self expression and ego.Creativity as well as children and romance.It lends to the performing arts as well.The 12th house is more the place of introversion and retreat and feeling imprisoned.RandallInteresting.------------------"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles SchultzDepTauruslol i have about 95% of all mentioned above lol and you know what i am shy and i am proud to say it lolsandi have a few of 4,5 and 8 but don't consider myself love shy.tenny22Interesting! I dated a fish like that, sex fiendAmi AnneThis is fascinating.Neptune conjunct the MC--very interestingMars in Cancer and Pisces was no surprise lolMany planets in 4th ,5th and 6th was a surprise too.------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personalityJung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs
Shyness & Love: Causes, Consequences, and Treatment by Dr. Brian G. GilmartinUniversity Press of America, Inc.1987
Excerpt:
1. Love-shy men have a surfeit of planets located in the 4th, 5th, and 6th houses. This is interesting because in astrology thissignals low self-sufficiency combined with high introversion/inhibition.
2. The chronically love-shy are significantly more likely than self-confident men to have their natal Saturn in the 5th or 7th houses. This is interesting because in astrology Saturn is the planet of restrictions. It is often referred to as the “negative teacher”. The 7th house is the house of marriage and partnerships; the 5th house is the house of sex and of children. 3. Chronically love-shy men have an overrepresentation of Mars in Cancer and in Pisces. In astrology Mars is the planet of energy and drive. Cancer and Pisces are regarded as the two worst signs for Mars because they are associated with inertia and with energy wastage.
4. Love shy men tend to have significantly more fixed signs and earth signs in their horoscopes than do self-confident, non-shymen. In astrology such combinations would be associated with inhibition and with stubborn and often intractable problems such as love-shyness.
5. Love-shy men are quite likely to have a natal Saturn that is square or conjunct to the natal sun or natal moon. Many loveshyshave Saturn in the same sign as either their sun, moon, or ascendant. 6. Severely love-shy men are significantly more likely than nonshys to have their natal Mars in one of the following four houses:7th, 6th, 4th, and 3rd, in that order. Severe love-shyness seems to be associated with the natal Mars being opposite either thenative’s ascendant or the native’s midheaven--give or take an orb of ten degrees. 7. Severely love-shy men show some tendency for their natal Neptunes to be at or near their midheavens. Neptune is the planet offantasy, daydreams and illusion. Those with Neptune at or near the midheaven are believed by astrologers to be dominated(ruled) by fantasy and illusion.
8. Severely love-shy men show some preponderance of planets, sun, moon, ascendant, and midheaven, in signs ruled by Venus: i.e., Taurus and Libra. Many love-shy men have at least two of the three major astrological elements (sun, ascendant, and moon)in the Venus-ruled Taurus and Libra. 9. Down through the centuries it has been noticed that the severely love-shy (men in particular) are substantially more likely than the non-afflicted to have been born during the May 16 to 19 period than during any other four-day period of the calendar year. The star called Caput Algol rules this four-day period. Traditionally this star had been called “The Evil One”. And the evidencecollected from scores of astrologers (including contemporary ones) indicates that this star does appear to have a detrimentalimpact upon a person’s powers of endurance. Men, in particular, who had been born during this four-day period are highly likelyto be excessively passive. Further, the Caput Algol personality is commonly perceived as being “pleasant but non-competitive” and sort of unambitious.
10. Astrologers determine a person’s sign for twelve different items: the sun, the moon, the rising sign, the midheaven, the two inner planets, and the six outer planets. Each of these twelve items had been in some astrological sign at the moment of a person’s birth. The severely love-shy are much more likely than the non-afflicted to have been born with nine or more of these twelve items in “negative” or “feminine” signs: i.e., Taurus, Cancer, Virgo, Scorpio, Capricorn, and Pisces. 11. Those born with Jupiter and Saturn conjunct (give or take an orb of ten degrees) have an above average vulnerability towards becoming severely love-shy. This is especially true if the conjunction occurs in the 5th or 7th houses.
Website address is: http://www.love-shy.com/Gilmartin/Chapter04/research.html
------------------Gemini sun, Cancer rising, Taurus moon--------------------------------------------------*I would fly to the moon and back...If you'll be my baby.
Ask by The Smiths
Shyness is nice andShyness can stop youFrom doing all the things in lifeYou'd like to
So, if there's something you'd like to tryIf there's something you'd like to tryAsk me I wont say no, how could I?
Coyness is nice, andCoyness can stop youFrom saying all the things inLife you'd like to
Spending warm Summer days indoorsWriting frightening verseTo a BUCKTOOTHED girl in Luxembourg
Ask me, ask me, ask meAsk me, ask me, ask me
Because if it's not LoveThen it's the bomb, the bomb, the bomb,the bomb, the bomb, the bomb, the bombThat will bring us together
Nature is a language - can't you read ?Nature is a language - can't you read ?
So, ask me, ask me, ask me,Ask me, ask me, ask me
If it's not LoveThen it's the bombThen it's the bombThat will bring us together
So, ask me, ask me, ask me,Ask me, ask me, ask meOh, la...
I am introverted, however. I hate people, as a principle, but I love intimate relationships and I'm always ready for the girl with whom I share a mutual attraction to give me a chance at love.
In response to the article:
1. I have 6 planets in the 4th and 5th houses.
4. I have 5 planets in fixed or earth signs, plus fixed Asc
5. I have natal Saturn conjunct natal Moon.
It's not that I'm love shy... but I rarely take first initiative... I need to be wanted, I don't want... I need to be in control...
If that happens, I can be very loving...
The 12th house is more the place of introversion and retreat and feeling imprisoned.
------------------"Don't worry about the world coming to an end today. It's already tomorrow in Australia." Charles Schultz
------------------ Enlightenment doesn't result from sitting around visualizing images of light, but from integrating the darker aspects of the self into the conscious personalityJung You must lose your life for My sake in order to find it . Jesus He who controls his Spirit is greater than he who controls a city Proverbs
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